Sk70 (original poster new member #87515) posted at 6:50 PM on Thursday, July 9th, 2026
Today I decided to check the phone bill. Today I was hit in the face with exactly much he was talking to her. Hours and hours. Someone once told me "if to go looking for hurt, you’ll find it". I guess that’s the truth.
Icedale31 ( new member #87471) posted at 7:35 PM on Thursday, July 9th, 2026
Sk70:
I'm very sorry to hear about your discovery. Its a traumatic realization and your pain is justified. Its true, ignorance is bliss, but the truth will set you free.
I found out about my wife's affair via phone records as well. She talked to her affair partner for over 283 hours in one calendar year... it's unbelievable.
Keep your head up. There is a lot of knowledge and experience on this forum to help you through this trauma. I wish you the best moving forward.
petecarparts ( member #87404) posted at 7:45 PM on Thursday, July 9th, 2026
I did the same thing after confronting my wife.
Not as many hours as you found, but still enough to hurt.
Sorry you're here, but at least you've got a supportive group of people here with you.
